Do you know who to blame?

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Who to blame when you fail? Do you blame self, or do you blame others? But I say it starts with you. We blame others for comfort of our heart and soul, but I'm not saying that's wrong, because I myself do blame others in certain situations. Sometimes we need to blame others for our failures with knowledge, but know whom to blame, find valid reasons for the blame and make no excuses give reasons for that blame. There is false blame that goes with excuses and less sense, and there is rightful blame which goes with facts and logic, so choose wisely.Who would you blame if someone denied you an opportunity of being a somebody in life and that chance would have made your life and family better. Coming from a poor background like mine, you knew that was the only chance you had and they never granted you that chance. If you where called for an interview and you woke up late, and they rejected you for coming late, tell me who's fault is it? Its up to you to decide, False blame or Right blame, you know better you decide.

We sometimes blame people for our wrongs, so its best to right your wrongs. Before shifting blame to others seek your faults, have understading of every situation and you will be enlightened.

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